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30/08/2008 车到山前必有路 可能是以前太理想化了,总是想把事情处理的拖拖贴贴、天衣无缝,总是希望那些让人烦恼、感觉之前如果做了一些事情就可以避免的问题不冒出头来,总是期望事情能够按照自己计划的进度展开。然而现实中的不确定性太多、太多,很多事情已经超出我的控制范围。我不能控制这个世界,我所能做的就是适应这个充满不确定性的世界。
生活中没有那么多如果,但是有很多但是。
岂能尽如人意,但求无愧我心。
谋事在人,成事在天。
天踏下来,有站的比我高的人顶着。 18/08/2008 激情不在 激情四射的奥运会比赛对我来说就如同鸡肋,比赛虽然精彩,但往日欣赏比赛的心情已经不在了。工地上问题不断,我的激情也在逐渐地消逝。处变不惊的机会成本就是激情不在,有时候感觉自己慢慢变得麻木了。
来到无锡快五个月了,不知道什么时候有了离开的想法。我不知道未来在哪里,但我知道还有很多风雨要去经历。我一直努力地试着用未来去唤起自己的激情,但未来又在哪里呢。
只有在孤独中,你才能感受到自我的存在;只有在绝望中,你才能看到希望的存在。 13/08/2008 按下葫芦起了瓢 下工地快一个半月了,在过去的一个半月中,最大的感触就是问题不断。一个问题接着一个问题,有的时候你会感到不可思议,但现实中这种事情就真的出现了。
慢慢地学着去据理力争,慢慢地学着去吵架,慢慢地学着去推卸责任。 07/08/2008 鹊桥仙 秦观【宋】
纤云弄巧,飞星传恨,银汉迢迢暗渡。 金风玉露一相逢,便胜却人间无数。 柔情似水,佳期如梦,忍顾鹊桥归路! 两情若是长久时,又岂在朝朝暮暮! 今天既是七夕节,又是立秋。但是炎热的天气,一点都看不出来秋天的味道。 一直都不喜欢夏天,因为太热,热得无处可逃,热得急火攻心,热得心烦意乱。 06/08/2008 The Last Lecture"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand." --Randy Pausch A lot of professors give talks titled "The Last Lecture." Professors are asked to consider their demise and to ruminate on what matters most to them. And while they speak, audiences can't help but mull the same question: What wisdom would we impart to the world if we knew it was our last chance? If we had to vanish tomorrow, what would we want as our legacy? When Randy Pausch, a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon, was asked to give such a lecture, he didn't have to imagine it as his last, since he had recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. But the lecture he gave--"Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams"--wasn't about dying. It was about the importance of overcoming obstacles, of enabling the dreams of others, of seizing every moment (because "time is all you have...and you may find one day that you have less than you think"). It was a summation of everything Randy had come to believe. It was about living. In this book, Randy Pausch has combined the humor, inspiration and intelligence that made his lecture such a phenomenon and given it an indelible form. It is a book that will be shared for generations to come. Questions for Randy Pausch
Amazon.com: I apologize for asking a question you must get far more often than you'd like, but how are you feeling? Pausch: The tumors are not yet large enough to affect my health, so all the problems are related to the chemotherapy. I have neuropathy (numbness in fingers and toes), and varying degrees of GI discomfort, mild nausea, and fatigue. Occasionally I have an unusually bad reaction to a chemo infusion (last week, I spiked a 103 fever), but all of this is a small price to pay for walkin' around. Amazon.com: Your lecture at Carnegie Mellon has reached millions of people, but even with the short time you apparently have, you wanted to write a book. What did you want to say in a book that you weren't able to say in the lecture? Pausch: Well, the lecture was written quickly--in under a week. And it was time-limited. I had a great six-hour lecture I could give, but I suspect it would have been less popular at that length ;-). A book allows me to cover many, many more stories from my life and the attendant lessons I hope my kids can take from them. Also, much of my lecture at Carnegie Mellon focused on the professional side of my life--my students, colleagues and career. The book is a far more personal look at my childhood dreams and all the lessons I've learned. Putting words on paper, I've found, was a better way for me to share all the yearnings I have regarding my wife, children and other loved ones. I knew I couldn't have gone into those subjects on stage without getting emotional. Amazon.com: You talk about the importance--and the possibility!--of following your childhood dreams, and of keeping that childlike sense of wonder. But are there things you didn't learn until you were a grownup that helped you do that? Pausch: That's a great question. I think the most important thing I learned as I grew older was that you can't get anywhere without help. That means people have to want to help you, and that begs the question: What kind of person do other people seem to want to help? That strikes me as a pretty good operational answer to the existential question: "What kind of person should you try to be?" Amazon.com: One of the things that struck me most about your talk was how many other people you talked about. You made me want to meet them and work with them--and believe me, I wouldn't make much of a computer scientist. Do you think the people you've brought together will be your legacy as well? Pausch: Like any teacher, my students are my biggest professional legacy. I'd like to think that the people I've crossed paths with have learned something from me, and I know I learned a great deal from them, for which I am very grateful. Certainly, I've dedicated a lot of my teaching to helping young folks realize how they need to be able to work with other people--especially other people who are very different from themselves. Amazon.com: And last, the most important question: What's the secret for knocking down those milk bottles on the midway? Pausch: Two-part answer: Actually, I was never good at the milk bottles. I'm more of a ring toss and softball-in-milk-can guy, myself. More seriously, though, most people try these games once, don't win immediately, and then give up. I've won *lots* of midway stuffed animals, but I don't ever recall winning one on the very first try. Nor did I expect to. That's why I think midway games are a great metaphor for life. 03/08/2008 放慢脚步 放慢脚步,你可以不时反思走过的路;
放慢脚步,也许路并不像你想象的那样狭窄;
放慢脚步,也许通往前方的路并不只是这一条;
放慢脚步,也许路边的风景还是值得欣赏的;
放慢脚步,也许倒掉鞋里的沙子并不是浪费时间;
放慢脚步,也许通往未来的路并不那么坎坷。 |
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